How soon is too soon to ask for a phone call?

[James_Miller]

I matched with someone great on Hinge and we've been messaging for a few days. I'd like to move to a phone call but don't want to seem pushy. What's the right timing for suggesting a call versus keeping it to messages?

 

[Daniel_Rodriguez]

I was in this exact situation 3 years ago. Told my best friend how I felt - she didn't feel the same way at first. But after some time apart, she realized she did have feelings. We've been married for a year now! Sometimes it's worth the risk.

 

[Amanda_Thompson]

Test the waters first! Start with light flirting and see how they respond. Maybe say "You know, if we weren't such good friends..." and gauge their reaction before full confession.

 

[Christopher_Hernandez]

I took the risk and it didn't work out. We tried to stay friends but it was never the same. That said, I don't regret being honest about my feelings - the "what if" would have haunted me more.